Being Delusional Might Just Be the Key to Success
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Being Delusional Might Just Be the Key to Success
By Robyn Milan
Rych Milan Co.
Let’s get one thing straight:
You’re not crazy for believing in more.
You’re not unrealistic. You’re not reaching.
You’re just done playing small—and that’s exactly how every success story starts.
Some people call it “delusion.”
I call it vision nobody else can see yet.
And honestly?
A little bit of healthy delusion might be the exact energy you need to change your life.
✨ What “Being Delusional” Really Means
It means:
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Believing you’re that girl before the results show up
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Talking like a CEO when you’re still working from your kitchen table
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Moving like luxury, even when your life looks basic
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Trusting your intuition louder than other people’s opinions
People laughed when I said I’d make something out of my ideas.
People doubted when I said I was going to glow up mentally, emotionally, and financially.
But I chose my delusional dreams over their realistic fears—and now I live in what they thought was impossible.
🧠 The Psychology of Self-Concept
Your brain doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s repeated.
If you keep saying:
“I’m broke.”
“I’m stuck.”
“No one supports me.”
Your mind will find proof of that identity everywhere.
But when you start saying:
“I’m rich in energy and ideas.”
“My success is inevitable.”
“I attract opportunities that align with my future self.”
That’s the energy shift that activates your glow-up.
💅🏽 It’s Not Delusion—It’s Deciding Who You Are
Some people are waiting for evidence before they believe.
But powerful women?
They believe first, move boldly, and watch the evidence align later.
So yes, I talk to myself like I’m already living in a penthouse.
Yes, I walk like the world is mine.
Yes, I celebrate small wins like they’re six-figure moments.
Because delusion? Is just another word for faith without fear.
✍🏽 Journal Prompts:
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What would I do differently if I believed nothing was too big for me?
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Where have I been playing small out of fear of looking “delusional”?
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What’s one bold belief I can affirm daily—even if no one else sees it yet?